It is very strange but we often feel that we know ourselves very clearly.Actually a myth. Without mentioning the names of anyone but specifying the feelings, all my doubts were cleared. Certain women like soft spoken men who in turn qualify to become good husbands. there are few other women who like or get attracted towards men who are arrogant, and dominant voice. It is not a bad thing, its a tendency, I was relating the concept with my experiences(past and present). And there stood my answer. I never realized that my heart even though resists such rude guys, actually tends to like such personality. Such men would never be a good husband ever, because they would only instigate pain for their own motive. There are sort of split personality and know very well when to be sweet and when to show their innate nature.
An average human being over his/her life span will fall in love 6 times. Not necessarily that its got to be a long standing affair. But then the feeling, or the pleasant feel would be the same. For instance, married people also fall in love or admire other people .Isnt it? It is because the heart does not know whether you are married or not. It only knows to seek love and find solace. Does not mean that it is always right. Then the mind comes into picture and a conflict arises between the two. The wise would listen to the intellect. There are few who purchase pain by listening to the heart.
It is not easy to control the heart.I feel its true because it goes galloping hither-thither. I need to sit and observe my heart.Allow the feelings to take flight and see how far it goes. After a while, or couple of instance, the feeling that i have for this person will die off. Its certain. I tend to get afraid whenever i see this character. The solution is- just ignore, because such people speak good, talk spiritual even when they actually know nothing.I am quite young and should look at it as an experience.
I was helped to find an answer to why i feel this way. Well, life is not that easy - it is probable that my heart will again swing to similar a character in the future. But i then got to be aware of every feeling and act accordingly. Moreover true love in this world is only possible among people with the same angle of spiritual bent.There would also be attraction.Attraction and intimacy is got to be there but only after reaching that level of understanding and again spiritual mindset.The love marriages, arrange marriages that promise a happy married life..till the end of life is a myth. Then why is the honeymoon period limited to initial years of marriage?
I feel like a free bird.I did not know the reason why i did not want to let go completely. Now that i know that it was just a passing cloud and such things will never be healthy on a long run, i shall be very careful when i talk to people and shall be very alert of my feelings and my thoughts.
Really praying for a bright future and worthwhile friends.
An average human being over his/her life span will fall in love 6 times. Not necessarily that its got to be a long standing affair. But then the feeling, or the pleasant feel would be the same. For instance, married people also fall in love or admire other people .Isnt it? It is because the heart does not know whether you are married or not. It only knows to seek love and find solace. Does not mean that it is always right. Then the mind comes into picture and a conflict arises between the two. The wise would listen to the intellect. There are few who purchase pain by listening to the heart.
It is not easy to control the heart.I feel its true because it goes galloping hither-thither. I need to sit and observe my heart.Allow the feelings to take flight and see how far it goes. After a while, or couple of instance, the feeling that i have for this person will die off. Its certain. I tend to get afraid whenever i see this character. The solution is- just ignore, because such people speak good, talk spiritual even when they actually know nothing.I am quite young and should look at it as an experience.
I was helped to find an answer to why i feel this way. Well, life is not that easy - it is probable that my heart will again swing to similar a character in the future. But i then got to be aware of every feeling and act accordingly. Moreover true love in this world is only possible among people with the same angle of spiritual bent.There would also be attraction.Attraction and intimacy is got to be there but only after reaching that level of understanding and again spiritual mindset.The love marriages, arrange marriages that promise a happy married life..till the end of life is a myth. Then why is the honeymoon period limited to initial years of marriage?
I feel like a free bird.I did not know the reason why i did not want to let go completely. Now that i know that it was just a passing cloud and such things will never be healthy on a long run, i shall be very careful when i talk to people and shall be very alert of my feelings and my thoughts.
Really praying for a bright future and worthwhile friends.
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