Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Heartbreak leads to Prosperity..


I was seated at my bay . The beach looks appealingly gorgeous from the tenth floor.The seashore was calm, yet the waves as if compelled to reach the finishing point at the shore. Which of course was an imaginary line proportional to the speed of the waves. Neah ! am not for Physics for the moment. A flash of thought and I dive into my past.

A close friend this time whom I knew well. Very well. The waves started to race because of the influence of the wind. My thoughts suddenly take a halt to many a questions. Why did she fall in love and never realized? She valued his friendship more than anything and never ever offended him? He came like a breeze and brought a package of unconditional love and care( as it initially seemed) . Later he blew the very essence of faith, trust and love in a way that she was left speechless,shattered and lost. He had used her innocence and goodness for his own benefits and once saturated he let go of her humiliating her . Perhaps she never wanted to think beyond,even though the spur of feeling ignited within. Until its was too late and he showed his ruthless character. It was destined.

The other day, I felt upon speaking to her that she has moved on to be a courageous and bold girl with high self-respect and faith in God. But I also knew that deep inside she finds a daunting question, as to why her best friend turned a black sheep. She has never ever been the same with anyone but I know that deep inside she says.-' I shall never be able to hate you coz I have come a long way for the better.Thanks for being harsh and begone..'

Well, all is for the good. The waves calmed again. I resumed my work with a smile of content.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Redefining LOVE


What is love? I know it is the most common question that one hits upon. It is quite strange but a fact that the definition keeps on refining with each stage in life that we move on. I myself am no exception. Having tested many waters down the ages, we do come across many shades of love. Perhaps am still in my path of understanding the whole funda. Of late, I have become very practical which was not my nature some time back. The experiences in life would be the cause I say. Love for me involves understanding, freedom as in thought and deed and being bold given a situation with a little tinch of compassion. I have seen people getting insecure and emotionally dependent but then I feel out of the box. Yes, I do feel a sense of belongingness but more is the sense of responsibility and growth as an individual. It is more to do with patience and keeping a cool. More to becoming a listener and going by the mind than heart at all times.


When the seed of expectation from others dies the very moment it is put to sprout, what is the best way out? Let go and let your worries free. Love does not die but it rather remain pure and unexpressed. That’s the best way.